Showing posts with label love. Show all posts
Showing posts with label love. Show all posts

Saturday, 18 July 2015

Lets talk about guys....πŸ˜πŸ˜…

Hey it's Summer again,

I decided that this time I was going to go down a different route and talk about something that I wouldn't usually talk about.

GUYS

Now the thing about guys is that they don't uhnderstand some of the things they do or say. They never think and the majority of them never will! Sorry to burst anyones bubble if you thought this would ever change!

Now- I'm not saying this is the case with all guys so don't go judging every single guy you meet so quickly and don't blame me either aha.

Me personally, I get fed up with guys who think that they can go around getting everything they want. A recent saying I have learnt for this is 'getting your cake and eating it'. Initially i didn't quite understand the meaning of such an odd saying, then I finally understood the general meaning of the phrase. Basically, you an't ask for something and get it straight away and you can't ask for lots of things and then expect them all to come true or happen.That's not how life works and sadly to some people they do not know or recognise this- a lot of the time MEN!

Now i am only writing this post because I have had issues a lot recently. To most people I would say 'don't give up, but right now that is what I have done'.

The thing I have noticed a lot with guys recently is that a fair few of them just want what most guys want, your body, pictures and the majority of the time no commitment!! What a god damn pain aye!! But sadly it's the truth with a fair share of guys. Damn I wish it wasnt, but hey, don't forget there are some good, nice, kind and gentle guys out there. So don't wish them all away. They aren't all bad- believe me😘

But when all goes wrong, don't forget you always have Netflix with great shows like my favourites Orange is the New Black and Pretty Little Liars! That's enough to keep me going through the day, knowing i have something to make the days seem normal and genuin. So yes, it would be nice to have a guy to watch it with but sometimes you just can't have everything at once- so Netflix subscription it is aha.

Tuesday, 16 June 2015

New member and 3000 veiws - Lollie

Hello internet!

It's Lollie here. Today, I would like to introduce you too our new member - Valerie. 
About two months ago, before all of our exams started, our contributions to this blog started to fail miserably as we were all stressing out and having mild existential crisis'. We decided collectively who would be staying on as a member and who did not want to be part of this blog anymore. After much discussion, Maya decided she wouldn't be able to cope with posting weekly and keeping up with everything else. 
After Maya decided to leave, the other six of us were sent into a long spiralling period of trying to find a new name as there no longer 7 of us. We had many ideas, some that not all of us agreed on and some that were already taken as domains and in the end, it was Maya who actually approached us with an idea - Why not ask Valerie?
Valerie will be posting on a Thursday, just as Maya used to and we hope that you welcome her to the blog!

On another note, we have reached 3000 views on the blog, which in my opinion is totally crazy! It is so strange to think that our posts have been viewed and read that many times by people from all over the world. Even people in Australia have read some of our posts which is mind blowing! Thank you to everyone that reads the stuff that we post.

So to round up this post, I hope you enjoy our new member and thank you once again for readin all our posts!

Until Next Time, Allons-!
Lollie x

Thursday, 14 May 2015

The characteristics of a Leo - Lollie

Hello Earthlings!
I'm a big one for astrology. I'm a Leo and all these horoscopes floating about on the internet expect me to be full of certain characteristics, so... I thought I'd have a look and then see if I fit into them.

Leo Strength Keywords:
- Confident
In some ways I'd say I am but in others I'm not so confident. Talking to people I don't know in person, over the phone, at an interview, in the street or meeting them for the first time scares me to death and I am far from confident when it comes to this. I have not always been confident, it's something I've had to work on and something I am still working on. Confidence also comes with the company you keep. I believe that my friends I have have contributed to my growth in confidence over the past few years.
- Ambitious
I'm very ambitious and I will always aim to do the impossible. My head is always full of big ideas and things that in theory, would be impossible for me to complete, however, I do try my hardest to get the closet alternative option
- Generous
Am I generous? let me ask Summer (she's sitting next to me). "Am I generous?" I ask "Of course you are," She replies, "You always give me food"... that settles it then.
- Loyal
Let me ask her again "Am I loyal?" she nods and replies, "Of course you are, we've been friends since year 8" That's true, I have had most of my friends for 6 years now and I stick by them whenever I can.
- Encouraging
I am very encouraging and try to encourage people positively whenever I can and try and keep them on the right path. Summer has compared me to the angel on her shoulder a few times.

Leo Weakness Keywords:
- Pretentious
I do try t sound more intelligent than I am as I hate it when I look stupid in front of people. I get embarrassed if I make a fool of myself so I've adopted to learning bigger words in order to hold an semi-intellectual conversation.
- Domineering
I can be very... strong-willed sometimes but I wouldn't call it domineering. I am far from domineering as some will tell you. I will do anything to keep the people I love happy. I can be quite bossy but I don't think that's down to my star sign, I think it's more how I was brought up.
- Melodramatic
Guilty as heck. Ask anyone of the sweethearts I am the most melodramatic person there is (see I'm even being melodramatic now). I'm very over the top and if I'm in the slightest bit of pain I will not hesitate to make it known. I think I'm as dramatic as I am due to being a performing arts kid.
- Stubborn
Oh yes. If someone tells me to go to bed because I'll be tired, I will insist I'm fine and I won't go to bed, even though I'm actually falling asleep. I can't stand being wrong and when I am, I don't like to admit it. I also, sometimes struggle to change my view point on something and will not be able to comprehend why someone doesn't share my view point.
- Vain
No. I am not vain. In the past I have been very unhappy about how I look and I've always been very self conscious about my weight as I am a little bit bigger than your average girl. I hardly ever take selfies because I struggle to get a good angle and I don't look in the mirror a lot. I don't wear makeup often, that's not because I'm vain it's because I simply cannot be bothered to apply it and then take it off later, plus, I don't mind the freckles on my face so I don't want to cover them up with foundation.

Leo and Independence:
Leo is very independent but they need something to control and someone to admire them and appreciate them. They are fully capable of being greatly successful on their own but they are much happier if they have an audience and a following of people who look up to them. They would prefer not be alone.

Independent? I would be nothing without other people within my life. Sometimes though, it's better if I am left to my own devices. I want to show my mum I can be independent and lately she's been letting me show it more, seeing as I am almost 17. It's nice to have someone appreciate me, yes but I don't want a following. I would prefer not to be alone, I love spending time with my  friends, it's one of the best ways for me to relax.
Leo and Friendship:
People are attracted to Leo's zest for life and their warm spirit. They have the ability to lift up one's spirits and provide encouragement when times are rough. Their enthusiasm attracts people, Leos are social butterflies, not because they want to be but because people always naturally gravitate and surround the Leo. Leos are very difficult people to not like, they are usually fairly balanced, realistic people. They never dwell on the past and they will think you are strange if you do. Some Leos might be too caught up in themselves and be very self-centred but they are never too self-absorbed to help anyone who needs it. They pamper their friends and treat them well. A Leo is the ultimate friend. They do not hold a grudge and they are very forgiving. They have respect and understanding of people's differences.

My 'zest for life'... well, I think life is a bitch and needs to stop hitting me with hard blows but then I suppose that's just being a teenager. I am very enthusiastic towards lots of things but social? nope. I hate being social with anyone other than those that I know. I get terrified about having to attend a family meal where cousins who I haven't spoken to in years are present. Well, apparently me being a Leo means I'm well liked. I am very realistic and say it how it is but I also try to make the person see the other side of the story. I don't think I'm self-centred. I would go above and beyond to help my friends out with something. I'm all about 'forgiveness and shit' ( a phrase used by someone I once knew well, but whom was one of the rare people who did not win my forgiveness). I can't hold a grudge to save my life unless the person has done something unspeakable to be or a friend or family member -  I can think of a few people I have grudges on. I respect everybody's point of view expect sometimes I don't agree with them.
Leo Temperament:
Leo loves the new and extraordinary, they despise dull, regular routines and if this is what they are faced with, they will simply create their own drama and excitement. This makes Leo prone to stir up a situation out of nowhere just for something to keep their vivacious temperament satisfied. Leo has an amazing ability to bounce back from any feelings of despair or unfortunate events. They do not like to be unhappy, it hurts their pride so they will take matters into their own hands and make things right again. Leos could come into conflict with other powerhouse type of people who will not take orders and not give an inch, Leos will not budge their opinion, they will understand and accept opinions of others but they do not take well to people to try to impose their beliefs on them. Leo most often have the temperament of a demanding, spoiled child but this is only shown if someone steps on the boundaries of their kingdom. They react this way because of their territoriality.

I have a love for things that are different - Religions founded on the basis of magic, people who's brains work in a more murder-centred way, androids and holo-glasses with promises of a holographic future. I hate dull things yes, boring everyday routines like, get up, eat, school, work, chips, tv, sleep. This is why I'd do anything for The Doctor to whisk me away from chips and telly and take me someplace far away. I do not create drama because my life feels dull. I hate creating drama, it causes unnecessary tension that I could do without if I'm honest. I hate being unhappy but seriously, does anyone like it? no, not really. If I've been feeling down, I'll try and cheer myself up as soon as I can because the feeling of unhappiness is one I know all too well and one that I don't want to be stuck with for a long duration. As I explained earlier, I will understand and accept those opinions that others had but if someone dare try to shove their opinion down my throat, then I'd have a problem. I hate people who try to do that even when I've said I understand and accept it but won't change my views. Demanding, spoiled little child? I' m sorry, you're clearly talking about the wrong person here. I don't feel like I act spoilt at all. I appreciate everything I have been given and everything  have.  
Leo Deep Inside:
Leos are extremely sensitive but they hide that very well. Leos love praise and flattery, their egos demand respect and adoration. Leo is all about pride. This can cause them to be self-centred but the warmth of the Leo heart keeps it under control. If Leo's audience (otherwise known as their friends) do not provide the needed appreciation, Leo is too proud to ask for it and they will suffer a hurt ego, but no one will ever know and they will suffer in silence. The secret of the Leo is that they need to be needed.

I'm not as thick skinned as I appear to be and negative comments have quite a long lasting effect on me. If you've said something nasty to me or about me, I won't ever forget it. I might forgive you but I don't forget - ever. The sad truth of me being under this star sign is I 'long or need to be needed'. I don't really know what to say, but, I suppose it is nice to know I have friends who rely on me and I will be there when they need me.
Leo in a Nutshell:
Leo is the lion, this well suited symbol represents Leo very well. They possess a kingdom which they protest and cherish. The are high esteemed, honorable and very devoted to themselves in particular! The kingdom could be anything from work to home to a partner, whatever it is, you rule it. Leo is always center stage and full of flair, they enjoy basking in the spotlight. A Leo always makes their presence known. Leo are full of energy that acts like a magnet for other people. Others are attracted to Leo's wit, charm, and what they have to say for they speak of things grand and very interesting. Leo will never settle for second best. They want only the best which can cause lavish excessive spending habits as they enjoy their life of luxury, which is all to easily justified by the grand and magnificent Leo! Public image is very important to Leo, with luxurious possessions and ways of life, this keeps the public image in high standing. They will do whatever it takes to protect their own reputation. Leos are very generous, kind and openhearted people. If a Leo is crossed, they will strike back with force but they are not one to hold a grudge, they easily forgive, forget and move on. Leos are always trying to make things right in the world, they have larger then life emotions and they need to feel like they have accomplished something at the end of the day. They react to situations with action instead of sitting back and thinking about it, they are not impulsive however because they look at the future and consider consequences of their actions. 

Where's my kingdom? If I possess a kingdom does that make me a queen? I am not devoted to myself for christ sakes! If I run a kingdom, I must be honourable to those in it and I assume that would be my friends. I do make me presence known sometimes, other times, blending into the background is okay too. I hate being put second best to someone because it really makes me feel like I'm not good enough. I don't have a reputation to keep. I don't 'lavish' in riches and a lovely lifestyle and if I do I don't show it off. I will be kind to people who deserve my kindness and sometimes to people who don't. Never get on the wrong side of me because you will regret it. Ask any of my friends, I hate arguing because I just want everything to be peaceful and right and I try to do that within my friendship group as I feel it's my job to keep everybody together.


Leo Love, Sex and Relationships
What it's like to date a Leo Woman:
The first step is to give her praise and adoration. The relationship will never work if she does not receive this from you. Do not look at other women when you are with her, she has to be the only one in your eyes. The thought of competition with other women completely turns her off, for she is marvelous and grand and better then any other woman (in her eyes)! Be prepared however to compete with other men. She attracts men, deliberately or not, because of her dazzling personality. She makes a good partner because she gives undying affection and love and makes you feel really mood about yourself. She is kind and supportive with an adventurous streak, she is always fun to be with. Leo woman will dominate,. But not completely for she still needs the man to lead the way and give her the desired sense of approval, she looks up to her man. Leo woman is perfect for the man who is affectionate and has a strong character but not too controlling. She needs someone who is passionate about everything in their life and who strives for the best in everything, because so does she.

I don't want to be adored I just wanted to be loved! I am incredibly jealous and will start to have second thoughts about someone if I think they are flirting with another girl. I hate being a jealous person. I do not attract men. I get about as much attention as a white crayon, so that, horoscope thingy, is bullshit. I am not domineering for crying out loud. In a relationship, I would hate to be in control, I feel like that is the man's job to lead me and I will look up to him for protection.
How To Attract Leo:
Admiration is key. Admire them ands they will be yours. Leo is a fairly easy sign to attract they are very receptive to advances and come ons. Give them compliments, dish them out in handfuls because Leos never think a compliment can go too far. Even if you are faking it, they don't care, the simply love the attention. Be funny, Leos love to be entertained and they love to laugh. If you can make them laugh, you're good! Leos like the grand things in life, treat them to a lavish dinner or a cultural upscale event. Always have the best of the best and never try to offer them second rate. They think nothing is too good for them, they like everything posh so dress classy and nice, and have a good night on the town with the charming Leo!

Don't admire me please. I hate being complimented because I don't know how to take it. I just go 'um, thanks'  really awkwardly because I almost feel like they aren't meant for me. I love a funny guy. If he can have my laughing for hours, he's good. No. A starlight picnic is enough for me. You don't need a fancy dinner or posh clothes to win me over.
Sex With Leo:
First impressions would tell you that Leo is all about the kinky and novelty, but that is not so. They are deeply sensual and passionate and enjoy posh surroundings, such as candles and scented oils and lots of affectionate physical contact such as massages and rubbing. They like sex to be familiar, not necessarily routine, but they like to know what's going on. This is because Leo always has to be the best and if there is a suggestion or something offered that they have never done before, they would rather pass on the chance then attempt it and be only satisfactory. Leo has mastered the moves he know, so do not be disappointed with the lack of novelty and variety, because Leo is very good at what they can do, they are the best. 
So apparently I'm not kinky I'm sensual and passionate. I hate oils, they are too oily. There is nothing sexy about oils. I have no idea about this section as I kind of can't speak from any experience at all. I don't really know who to respond to the rest of this category so perhaps I should end it here.

If you read your horoscope and following what your star sign says you should be, just remember - it's a guideline. The date and month you were born should not pre-determine who you are, your personality, what job suits you best or anything. Only you should determine that for yourself. Most horoscopes are worded in a certain way which makes them appealing and generalisable for most people. I could probably analyse another star sign and find that most of the personality traits that a person under this star sign should have, I have also.

I hope you all enjoyed this post and once again, you got to know me a little better. I like doing astrological posts and ones about occult, taboo or mystical things because they are so interesting to research and write about. Have a good weekend. I know it's Thursday and perhaps I'll post tomorrow as well, who knows. I have plenty of draft posts waiting to be developed...

Until Next Time - Allons-y!
Lollie xxx 

Saturday, 14 February 2015

Valentines Day Thoughts - Saturdays with Payton

Hey!
It's Payton here, ready to share some love with you on Valentines Day! I was having a deep thinking moment about Valentines Day before writing this post and I would like to share my thoughts with you, if that's okay.
Valentines Day is usually "advertised" for none of a better word for couples, boyfriends, girlfriends, husbands, wifes etc, and describe it as spending the day with someone that you care and love about. So I thought why is it advertised as being for people in relationships but not for everyone. I mean obviously yes you would want to share the day with your boyfriend, girlfriend etc but wouldn't you also want to spend the day with your mum, dad, sister, brother, friends and other family members and people who you care about who you also have a relationship with, plus the day is described as being with someone who you love and care about.
Sorry rant over, now on with the rest of the post!
So I am going to keep in the theme of Valentines Day and I will be doing a Valentines Day tag for you all, so let's get started!

1. What is your favorite Valentines Day treat? 
Oooo, something tasty to eat like chocolate! 

2. Sweethearts or chocolate covered strawberries?
Definitely chocolate covered strawberries ftw!

3. What was your favorite Valentines day memory?
I don't have a special memory, it's really just a normal day for me spending it with my family, as sadly I do not have a boyfriend to spend it with, but that's okay at least I'm spending it with people I love!

4. What movie would you rather watch on Valentine's Day: Pretty Woman or You've Got Mail?
I actually haven't seen either Pretty Woman or You've Got Mail........Lemme google something quickly....... okay so from their plot lines I would rather watch You've Got Mail.
5. What celeb would you not mind having as your Valentine?
Ooooo, this question is a tough one, I would not mind having quite a few different celebrities as my valentine although I think that I have now made up my mind.
I would definitely not mind having Chris Hemsworth as my Valentine or Taylor Glockner or Harley Bonner.
 



6. What would you do on your perfect Valentine's date?
I haven't really thought of this to be honest with you, I think that it depends, on one hand I would love to go for a meal and to the cinema, but I think that everyone does that, but really I would love to do something that we would both enjoy together.

7. Red or pink lips on Valentines Day?
I do love red lips but I do not think that I can pull it off, but I am trying different combinations and colors but until I find the right one I will have to say pink lips.


8. What is your ideal Valentine's Day date outfit?
This would depend on what we are doing that day, I would definitely try and wear something cute no matter what, if it was a meal out then I would rock the dress and heels but if it was something else then I may wear something more casual, but I am usually indecisive with what I wear so it would be something I pull together last minute!

9. Homemade or store-bought gifts?
I love both, but I do think that homemade gifts are cute and more personal and memorable.

10. Would you wear your hair up or hair down for a date night?
 
I would wear my hair down and it would probably be curled. I just hate wearing my hair up unless it is perfect.

So that is it for my Valentines Day post, I hope that you enjoyed it and I hope that you have had an awesome Valentines Day! 'Love is just love, it can never be explained'

See you next week!
~Payton <3



Thursday, 5 February 2015

Concert Review (My new obsessions)

Heya guys,

It's Thursday once again so here I am to inform you on how my week has been since I last wrote to you.
As many of you may already know by now, Monday night I went to see Sam Bailey in concert with Belle and Lollie. It was absolutely INCREDIBLE. She has one of the most spectacular voices and she is incredibly talented. I love her voice so much, and it instantly improves my voice. 
So yeah, it was an amazing show and I would definitely recommend and be buying tickets next time she's touring in my local area.
And following this, supporting Sam Bailey were an incredibly talented and beautiful duo named Daughters of Davis. Fern and Adrienne Davis are a sister duo who play music with an acoustic soul/folk vibe. 
I had researched them a bit before arriving after the concert (and by I I mean Lollie did on my behalf) and when I heard them on stage I was blown away. It's safe to say I have a new obsession, and their album British Soul (available on iTunes or Amazon) has been on repeat ever since Monday night. Following this, I'm now saving up for their other album, To The Water. Not only this, I think they're both incredibly beautiful and talented and would highly recommended you checking them out and following them on Twitter and Instagram. 
For me personally I find that their music is great for when I'm feeling a bit down and need a bit of inspiration and a "pick me up", but also just because their music makes me happy and smile.   

And on another brief musical-based note, I thought I would share with you all my current musical playlist for this week, with all the tunes I have been loving!
1. Footprints ~Daughters of Davis
2. Heartbeat Song ~Kelly Clarkson
3. From this moment on ~Sam Bailey
4. Up ~Olly Murs ft Demi Lovato
5. Love me like you do ~Ellie Goulding
6. My love is like a star ~Demi Lovato
7. Take me to church ~Hozier
8. Cool kids ~Echosmith
9. Catch me if you can ~Daughters of Davis
10. FourFiveSeconds ~Kanye West, Rihanna & Paul McCartney

That's all from me this week, Have a lovely week and I'll see y'all next week,

Maya♡

Thursday, 29 January 2015

Delicious cookie in a mug recipe for you all- Love Maya

Heya guys!

It's Thursday already (again yes I know, where does time go aye?). So I did have an idea what to post today, had started to plan it. But unfortunately with the stress of sixth form taking its toll, I unfortunately haven't had a chance to finishing writing it, and rather than rushing it I thought I'd save it for next week for you guys. 
So instead today, I decided to post another baking recipe for you guys to try. This is a no fuss, disaster free, super simple chocolate chip cookie In a mug recipe. This is great for delicious and simple desserts, or simply as a snack when your hungry.

For this, you will need:

~A tablespoon of melted butter
~One egg yolk
~A tablespoon of caster sugar
~A tablespoon of light or dark (I prefer to use light) brown sugar
~Three tablespoons of plan flour
~Chocolate chips -of any sort and any amount, whichever suits your personal preference. 

1. So firstly, in a microwaveable mug, mix together the butter and yolk until combined. 

2. Add in all the dry ingredients (flour and sugars) and mix thoroughly.

3. Lastly, mix in the chocolate chips, or if you prefer just sprinkle a few on top. Personally I find it nicer to mix them in. 

*TOP TIP* for those wanting an extra naughty treat, mix in a spoon of chocolate spread, melted chocolate or Nutella for an extra tasty treat!

Bake this in a microwave for about 60-90 seconds, depending on the power and quality of your microwave. Careful, your mug may be hot!
Leave to cool slightly, and enjoy!


Here's what is should look like. Hope you have fun baking these! They're so irreversibly gorgeous.

Until next week

Love Maya

Friday, 23 January 2015

How to Become a Better Human: Dealing with Stress - Lollie

Yes, it is that time of week again my faithful friends - it's Friday. The day you look back on the week and think 'Where did it go?' or is that just me?

Before I start, something happened this week - Our blog started booming and page views soared and we got a comment which was unexpected, so thank you!

Anyway, as I promised in my first ever post, I am doing something today called 'How to become a better human'. This is going to be an on-going thing where I will cover things from health, relationships, life-changing choices and also small day-to-day things that might help your life be better and give you a better chance of surviving.

The first topic I have picked is stress. This past week, the pressure of sixth form has been getting to me, I know the other Seven Sweethearts can relate. I am doing three coursework subjects and trying to keep on top of them is exhausting. My mind seems to be jumbled and confused 24/7 and my concentration span is at 0. I suffer from constant headaches and I feel sick for no apparent reason. If you think you might be stressed, here are a list of symptoms:

·         Low energy.
·         Headaches.
·         Upset stomach, including diarrhea, constipation, and nausea.
·         Aches, pains, and tense muscles.
·         Chest pain and rapid heartbeat.
·         Insomnia.
·         Frequent colds and infections.

Now in psychology, we have been learning about the two types of stress. You have acute stress, which is to do with short term situations that leave you stressed, for example, your car breaking down or your computer not working and then you have chronic stress, this is seen to be the most serious of the two, often occurring due to a massive build up of acute stress over a long time period, or a major life-changing event that has caused stress.

I'm going to talk about acute stress. Things that can be seen as acute stressors include deadlines, getting to school/work on time, making sure you get enough sleep etc, etc. These can also be called daily hassles - breaking a pen, seeing the person you hate, losing a key.

Although you may feel as though all this is getting on top of you - don't worry. We have these daily hassles but we also have things called daily uplifts, things that make our day worthwhile and push the hassles away. These could be reading your favourite book, receiving an unexpected text from someone, getting a hug, a phone call with someone you love, seeing a picture of your favourite actor (if you're me, that's John Simm at the moment) or having some food that you like (or maybe it's one of your friends giving you a small jar with '25 reason to smile when you're feeling down' written down on small pieces of paper and folded into it - thank you Belle!) If you take a moment when you are stressed out to let one of these uplifts come your way, you could feel much better.

If you find you are still feeling stress, here is a list of things that might help you to relax or relieve that stress:
·         ·         Go to the beach
·         Be positive
·         Sing a song
·         Pet a dog
·         Tell a joke
·         Listen to music
·         Blow bubbles
·         Take a nap
·         Dance a jig
·         Take a walk
·         Write a letter
·         Have a cup of tea
·         Ask for help
·         Smile
·         Take a break
·         Do it now!
·         Stretch
·         Keep a journal
·         Hum a tune
·         Practice patience
·         Get up early
·         Meditate
·         Do Tai Chi
·         Play a drum
·         Prioritize
·         Give a hug
·         Throw a ball
·         Play with a child
·         See a movie
·         Plant a flower
·         Say "No"
·         Set Limits
·         Eat a snack
·         Read a book
·         Practice kindness
·         Light a candle
·         Laugh out loud
·         Lie in the sun
·         Walk in the rain
·         Run in the park
·         Talk to a friend
·         Take a bubble bath
·         Avoid negative people
·         Take a deep breath
·         Ask for what you need
·         Go to bed on time
·         Walk a labyrinth
·         Give a compliment
·         Clean a closet
·         Go barefoot
·         Give a blessing
·         Watch a sunrise
·         Say a prayer

Thinking carefully about the lifestyle choices that you make is also a big factor in relieving stress. Make sure you get enough time everyday to just sit back and relax.
- Learn how to say 'no'.
Simple, but effective. Where a 'no' is the appropriate response, say it without guilt.
- Manage your time.
Don't overdo things.
A simple method is to:
·         List the things that you need to do.
·         Put them in order of importance
·         Decide what you need to do yourself, and what can be delegated.
·         Decide which needs doing today, next week or next month
·         Decide what doesn't need doing after all, and drop it from the list.

I find that making lists works best for me. I make lists for everything. I even make lists for my lists... but it helps me be  bit more organised and puts what I need to achieve into perspective.

- You could always try 'Desk Yoga'
Alternate nostril breathing
Fold your index and middle finger (2nd and 3rd fingers) towards your palm on your right hand. Then place your left thumb under your right nostril to 'tap' it up. Inhale from the left nostril to the count of four. Gently pinch the left nostril with the right ring finger (4th finger) to the count of 16. And release your thumb and exhale through the right nostril for 8. Now inhale through the right nostril for 4. Hold for 16. Exhale through the left nostril for 8. Repeat for several minutes.
This exercise balances the brain's serotonin, the chemical that regulates happiness. The pattern of inhalation (4, 16, 8) means that the air is pushed down to the bottom of the lungs and more toxins are released on exhalation. You will feel relaxed after this exercise, particularly in the shoulder area, and may experience heightened perception'

Now this doesn't work for me but if I find my concentration slipping, I'll breath slowly and relax for a moment and then maybe stick my headphones in so it is just me, the music and the work.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING: If you're ill, rest.
When stressed, your immune system lowers itself, making you vulnerable to illness. If you are ill when stressed - DO NOT CARRY ON, TAKE A BREAK. If you don't it'll only make you more ill and in turn, more stressed.

I'm sorry if this has been a little bit of a downer on your Friday but I felt like it was a serious topic that I needed to address :)

Until next time - Allons-y!
Lollie x




Friday, 16 January 2015

Well this wasn't as planned... - Lollie

Hi It's me again! (Lollie... Incase you didn't know)
And as the title says - it's that time of week again. You should be lucky I named it that, it was going to be 'Crime-fighting, inter-species lesbian couple' or 'Sontaran Conversion'.
Why you ask? Well, ladies and gentleman, fellow Whovians everywhere - I have converted my sister to a who-loving, strax-adoring Whovian. All it took was one watch of 'Deep Breath' and 'Crimson Horror' and suddenly she was quoting The Doctor and particularly Strax, laughing and the funny bits and also drawing Madame Vastra! (This is the drawing she did for me, she's only 11 bless her)
Then she ask me to draw Madame Vastra:
Which then led to the download of multiple Vastra and Jenny pictures because come on - how can you not ship crime-fighting, inter-species, lesbian spouses consisting of a lizard women fro the dawn of time and a Victorian chamber maid from London with their pet potato who also happens to be an ex-leader of an iter-galactic Sontaran battle fleet who gets over excited at the use of weapons?
Anyway, I would pay a good amount of money to watch The Paternoster gang's spin-off tv show. I would love it! MOFFAT you need to do this.
They also need to come back in Series 9 of not, I will be very disappointed as I feel they should be in more episodes than they have been already.

Overall I just wanted to let you all know about this development and I hope you all had a good week and I hope you have an amazing week ahead I'll see you next Friday!

Until next time, Allons-y! 
Lollie xoxo

Thursday, 15 January 2015

"It's just a bad day, not a bad life" -Love Maya♡

Heya guys!

Well, first things first, where has this last week gone?! Honestly, it feels like it was only yesterday I was writing a blog post for you guys. This week has gone pretty quick, with starting school back on a full timetable, catching up with old friends etc. So it's safe to say it's been a prettyhectic but okay week for me. 

Today I thought I would just (try) to inspire some of you. I'm not the most inspirational of people, and sometimes I don't really know what to say in situations to help people, but I like to try.

I'm the sort of person that loves quotes of all kinds. I swear and live by quotes, whether it's to remind me to be happy and love myself, guide me in tough situations (personally or for helping others) or just because I find them so accurate and true. Like Augustus Waters' Mum (from the fault in our stars) calls them, "encouragements".  I feel like there are some quotes that do give me a little bit of encouragement when I'm having a bad day. So I thought I'd share with you my 5 top quotes to brighten your day!

1. Nothing is impossible, even the word it's self says "I'm possible" ~Audrey Hepburn

2. Just because you fail once, doesn't mean your going to fail at everything. Keep trying, hold on, and always, always, always believe in your self, because if you don't, then who will, sweetie. ~Marilyn Monroe 

3. Success usually comes to those who are to busy to be looking for it. ~Henry David Thoreau

4. For what it's worth: it's never too late, or in my case, too early to be whoever you want. There's no time limit, stop whenever you want. You can change or stay the same,there are no rules to this thing. We can make the best or worst of it. I hope you make the best of it. And I hope that you see things that startle you. I hope you feel things you never felt before. I hope you meet people with a different point of view. I hope you live a life your proud of. If you find that you're not, I hope you have the strength to start all over again. ~unknown 

5. Beauty is what you feel about yourself, not about what you see in the mirror. ~unknown 

Well, I could go on forever, but I think these are definitely some of my favourites, even though there are plenty more I have stored. But that's all for this week, and remember -smile, because happiness looks gorgeous on you!

Love, Maya♡