Take a break! ~Maya

Heya guys,

It's Thursday which once again means that it's Maya here. I would firstly just like to say about how I think I've suddenly developed a galaxy addiction. I don't usually like galaxy chocolate yet somehow I've already finished my second big bar this week -it definitely isn't healthy for me but it just tastes soo good! Haha

So anyways, today I thought I would talk to you all about stress relieving and why it's important to sometimes just take some time to relax and rest. I've only just managed to shift off this horrible virus/illness thing that I had for about a week and it made me feel so crap for the majority of it. But with all the extra pressure of sixth form and everyday life it all got on top of me and I just had to take some time out and have some well earned and deserved rest. But from this, I thought it would be a nice idea to share with y'all some ways in which I like to unwind when your extremely stressed out. 

Firstly, baths. I have an obsession with lush products and their bath bombs just help me so incredibly much. I stick my favourite one of them into a deep steaming bath, light some candles, grab a book and enjoy my lush soak with a mug of green tea. 

This then leads me on to green tea. I carry these tea bags round with me everywhere (within reason), especially to school. When things get to much for me I just like to take a 20minute break in the corner with a hot mug of green tea. I just find it soothing and relaxing for the mind and body. I would highly recommend this, more so for those who can tolerate drinking this unusual flavoured beverage. 

Following from this, it may sound really odd, but tidying my room up/having a sort out. Ever heard the saying (I don't even know if it's an official saying to be honest but it is in my mind) "tidy room, tidy mind"?? Well for me I just feel so much better when I'm in a clean and tidy room. I like to reorganise things and have clear outs and "de-clutter" draws and sides within my room. It's also a positive thing In the fact that not only are de-stressing and having some time out, but your also being organised and tidy. I would recommend trying this, even if you feel if it would just help your brain feel a little more organised, I guarantee this will help you.

Yoga. Now I don't do yoga regularly at all, probably not even more than once or twice a month. But I absolutely love it and would love to join a yoga class if I could find one! I just find it so relaxing and soothing and it makes me feel so good after an hours session of it. If you google it though you will probably find some online classes that you can do, I have done a few but I'm awaiting a new mat to do it on before I continue as I would really like to get into this.

A final thing I'd probably say helps me wind down and relax is sitting in bed, watching Netflix and painting my nails. Now I don't know if you knew, but I LOVE to paint my nails, I usually do it twice a week and to date I own 74 bottles of nail polish! I love experimenting with new shades and colours and patterns, and I find the possibilities endless with doing so. I'm not a creative person but I would happily paint my nails every day if they didn't take so long to dry that is!

So, once again I'm going to stress the importance of relaxation! You should really take a couple hours out of your life, at least, to just have a bit of a wind down and you will feel so much better for doing so. Please leave suggestions in the comments on how you most prefer to relax, I'm open to any recommendations to try as I need to learn to start relaxing for now. 

That's all for now and I'll see you next week, 

Love, Maya♡

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"Relaxation; A feeling of refreshing tranquility and an absence of tension or worry" 

How to Become a Better Human: Dealing with Stress - Lollie

Yes, it is that time of week again my faithful friends - it's Friday. The day you look back on the week and think 'Where did it go?' or is that just me?

Before I start, something happened this week - Our blog started booming and page views soared and we got a comment which was unexpected, so thank you!

Anyway, as I promised in my first ever post, I am doing something today called 'How to become a better human'. This is going to be an on-going thing where I will cover things from health, relationships, life-changing choices and also small day-to-day things that might help your life be better and give you a better chance of surviving.

The first topic I have picked is stress. This past week, the pressure of sixth form has been getting to me, I know the other Seven Sweethearts can relate. I am doing three coursework subjects and trying to keep on top of them is exhausting. My mind seems to be jumbled and confused 24/7 and my concentration span is at 0. I suffer from constant headaches and I feel sick for no apparent reason. If you think you might be stressed, here are a list of symptoms:

·         Low energy.

·         Headaches.

·         Upset stomach, including diarrhea, constipation, and nausea.

·         Aches, pains, and tense muscles.

·         Chest pain and rapid heartbeat.

·         Insomnia.

·         Frequent colds and infections.

Now in psychology, we have been learning about the two types of stress. You have acute stress, which is to do with short term situations that leave you stressed, for example, your car breaking down or your computer not working and then you have chronic stress, this is seen to be the most serious of the two, often occurring due to a massive build up of acute stress over a long time period, or a major life-changing event that has caused stress.

I'm going to talk about acute stress. Things that can be seen as acute stressors include deadlines, getting to school/work on time, making sure you get enough sleep etc, etc. These can also be called daily hassles - breaking a pen, seeing the person you hate, losing a key.

Although you may feel as though all this is getting on top of you - don't worry. We have these daily hassles but we also have things called daily uplifts, things that make our day worthwhile and push the hassles away. These could be reading your favourite book, receiving an unexpected text from someone, getting a hug, a phone call with someone you love, seeing a picture of your favourite actor (if you're me, that's John Simm at the moment) or having some food that you like (or maybe it's one of your friends giving you a small jar with '25 reason to smile when you're feeling down' written down on small pieces of paper and folded into it - thank you Belle!) If you take a moment when you are stressed out to let one of these uplifts come your way, you could feel much better.

If you find you are still feeling stress, here is a list of things that might help you to relax or relieve that stress:

·         ·         Go to the beach
·         Be positive
·         Sing a song
·         Pet a dog
·         Tell a joke
·         Listen to music
·         Blow bubbles
·         Take a nap
·         Dance a jig
·         Take a walk
·         Write a letter
·         Have a cup of tea
·         Ask for help
·         Smile
·         Take a break
·         Do it now!
·         Stretch
·         Keep a journal
·         Hum a tune
·         Practice patience
·         Get up early
·         Meditate
·         Do Tai Chi
·         Play a drum
·         Prioritize
·         Give a hug
·         Throw a ball
·         Play with a child
·         See a movie
·         Plant a flower
·         Say "No"
·         Set Limits
·         Eat a snack
·         Read a book
·         Practice kindness
·         Light a candle
·         Laugh out loud
·         Lie in the sun
·         Walk in the rain
·         Run in the park
·         Talk to a friend
·         Take a bubble bath
·         Avoid negative people
·         Take a deep breath
·         Ask for what you need
·         Go to bed on time
·         Walk a labyrinth
·         Give a compliment
·         Clean a closet
·         Go barefoot
·         Give a blessing
·         Watch a sunrise
·         Say a prayer

Thinking carefully about the lifestyle choices that you make is also a big factor in relieving stress. Make sure you get enough time everyday to just sit back and relax.

- Learn how to say 'no'.
Simple, but effective. Where a 'no' is the appropriate response, say it without guilt.

- Manage your time.
Don't overdo things.

A simple method is to:

·         List the things that you need to do.

·         Put them in order of importance

·         Decide what you need to do yourself, and what can be delegated.

·         Decide which needs doing today, next week or next month

·         Decide what doesn't need doing after all, and drop it from the list.

I find that making lists works best for me. I make lists for everything. I even make lists for my lists... but it helps me be  bit more organised and puts what I need to achieve into perspective.

- You could always try 'Desk Yoga'

Alternate nostril breathing

Fold your index and middle finger (2nd and 3rd fingers) towards your palm on your right hand. Then place your left thumb under your right nostril to 'tap' it up. Inhale from the left nostril to the count of four. Gently pinch the left nostril with the right ring finger (4th finger) to the count of 16. And release your thumb and exhale through the right nostril for 8. Now inhale through the right nostril for 4. Hold for 16. Exhale through the left nostril for 8. Repeat for several minutes.

This exercise balances the brain's serotonin, the chemical that regulates happiness. The pattern of inhalation (4, 16, 8) means that the air is pushed down to the bottom of the lungs and more toxins are released on exhalation. You will feel relaxed after this exercise, particularly in the shoulder area, and may experience heightened perception'

Now this doesn't work for me but if I find my concentration slipping, I'll breath slowly and relax for a moment and then maybe stick my headphones in so it is just me, the music and the work.

THE MOST IMPORTANT THING: If you're ill, rest.
When stressed, your immune system lowers itself, making you vulnerable to illness. If you are ill when stressed - DO NOT CARRY ON, TAKE A BREAK. If you don't it'll only make you more ill and in turn, more stressed.

I'm sorry if this has been a little bit of a downer on your Friday but I felt like it was a serious topic that I needed to address :)

Until next time - Allons-y!

Lollie x